Board Members

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Dr Kirsty A Darwent

Chair

Kirsty has twelve years of experience of working at executive and non-executive board director level in the public and third sectors. Kirsty is currently the Deputy Chair of the Scottish Fire and Rescue Service and the Vice Chair of the NHS Ayrshire and Arran Board. A qualified psychologist and psychotherapist, Kirsty co-founded the Family Therapy Training Network and was previously the Course Director for Systemic Family Psychotherapy at the Scottish Institute of Human Relations.

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Jim Stephen  

Vice Chair 

Jim has a wide range of experience of working within the Scottish Government and with local government. Posts include early years planning and funding, children’s services planning, management of major Scottish Government funds for local government and the third sector, and drugs policy (focus on treatment and rehabilitation). Jim was also seconded to COSLA for 2 years. Through these posts, Jim has worked with a wide range of partners, including local government, the NHS, Social Work, the private and third sectors and service users. Jim is Chair of the Board of Directors of the Scottish Drugs Forum, which informs and influences national policy and practice, drug trends etc, with a particular focus on meeting the multiple and complex needs of people with drug problems. Jim has also undertaken consultancy work for Children in Scotland for external clients covering child protection, health and social care, locality-based integrated services for children and young people, and the potential role of social enterprises in childcare.

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Jim Shepherd

Board Member

Since and before retirement Jim has had an active part in many voluntary bodies, including Shetland Credit Union (Director), Voluntary Action Shetland (Director) and Church of Scotland (Elder).

Mark Stalker

Mark Stalker

Board Advisor

Mark sits on the Board as an adviser representing the interests of the local family mediation services. In his main role Mark is the manager of Relationships Scotland Family Mediation South Lanarkshire as well as being a registered family mediator and facilitator of the Parenting Apart programme. Prior to joining Relationships Scotland Mark was a solicitor in private practice for 12 years. In his spare time he volunteers with a local Greyhound Rescue, enjoys archery and watching bad horror movies.

 

May Chamberlain

May Chamberlain

Board Advisor

May Chamberlain has been with Relationships Scotland Central for almost 25 years. In all of that time she has been a volunteer therapist only taking on the Managerial role 10 years ago. As well running a very busy service, she has studied over the years and has qualifications in Counselling, Psychosexual Therapy, Sexual Addiction and is a qualified Supervisor in Counselling and Psychosexual Therapy/Sexual Addiction. May sits on the National Board as an advisor.

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Serena Sutherland

Board Member

Serena was nominated to the Board through her role as Chair Person of Relationships Scotland Orkney, where she has been chair for 2.5 years and was previously involved as a board member. Serena is a Lawyer based in Orkney although her work takes her throughout the north of Scotland. Serena does mostly family law and dispute resolution but as part of a general practice legal firm deals with a wide variety of other work and enjoys the variety. In her spare time she enjoys walking her dog, going to the cinema and socialising

John-Rowan

John Rowan

Board Member

John has considerable experience across a wide range of political, government, public and voluntary sectors. He also has significant expertise in operating within both Westminster and Holyrood environments. At present John
serves as an independent prison monitor for Her Majesty's Inspector for Prisons in Scotland. 
He also works as a volunteer for a homeless project in Edinburgh.

Iain Grimmond

Iain Grimmond

Treasurer

Iain has over 30 years’ experience as a charity Finance Director, initially at Erskine, the Scottish ex-service charity, and then as General Treasurer of the Church of Scotland from 2005 until 2015. In this latter post, Iain worked with trustees and managers to improve financial management, budgeting and reporting, governance, regulatory compliance, audit and risk management, and pensions. Iain served on the ICAS Charities Committee from its inception until 2015 and is a treasurer of his local church in Glasgow and of Guidelines International Network.

Robin Waterston

Robin Waterston

Board Member

I have been nominated by Relationships Scotland Tayside and Fife. I have been a family mediator for over 20 years, and I am Chair of our Mediation Practice Committee. I continue to be impressed by how relatively brief interventions by family mediators can have a significant and lasting effect on the relationship between separated couples and on the welfare of their children. I was a teacher of mathematics until my retirement some years ago. I am also a keen cyclist and hill walker.

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Nicola Gilchrist

Board Member

Nicola is a member of the Faculty of Advocates where she specialises in family and child law. Her practice at the Bar has seen her appear at all levels in the Scottish Courts and she has a particular interest in promoting safe contact between separated parents and in obtaining children’s views. Nicola joined the board of directors of Scottish Women's Aid in 2013 where she now holds the position of Vice Chair.

Sue Maxwell

Sue Maxwell

Board Member

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Murdo McLeod

Board Member

Murdo is the Chair of Relationships Scotland - Family Mediation West of Scotland.