Posts by Rosanne Cubitt
Parenting Apart – free support for families whose parents live apart
Families across Scotland can continue to benefit from the insights gained by participating in a Parenting Apart session – for free. The Scottish Government have recently confirmed that funding to allow these sessions to be developed and offered from Relationships Scotland’s family mediation services will continue for a third year. Parenting Apart information/education sessions are…
Read MoreHearing from children when their parents separate or divorce
Should we be listening to children and young people directly, or hearing their views via their parents? This is a question that exercises the minds of those who work in the family law field and is receiving heightened attention from policy makers in Scotland at the moment. Does it put pressure on children and young…
Read MoreInternational perspectives on post-separation parenting
Children do better when they can have a positive relationship with both their parents, whether they live together or apart. This was the clear message from both speakers at our International Perspectives on Post Separation Parenting Event in Edinburgh on 30th November. The challenging question for all of us at the event who work in…
Read MoreFamily Dispute Resolution Pilot
Relationships Scotland have been working with our lawyer mediator colleagues from CALM Scotland to put together a proposal to encourage families with disputes over contact arrangements to look in to their options for resolving their differences, prior to going to court. It is widely accepted that if parents can find a way to move forward…
Read MoreThe Four Cs – Advice from Ten Years of Family Mediation
Rosanne Cubitt, our Head of Professional Practice (Mediation) reflects on over a decade of experience as a family mediator. She’s worked with parents across Scotland dealing with the process of separation and divorce. I often say to parents that there are better and worse ways of splitting up – my job is to help them find…
Read MoreParenting Apart Project – Year 1 Summary
Parenting Apart information sessions have been offered across Scotland, from 11 Member Services, since funding was awarded by the Scottish Government in April 2015. In that time over 300 parents have participated in group or individual sessions and found out how to make splitting up less stressful for children. The feedback from parents has been…
Read MoreLearning from MIAMs in England and making it work in Scotland
Rosanne Cubitt, Mediator and Head of Professional Practice (Mediation) Relationships Scotland is calling for more families to be made aware of mediation as an alternate route to court action and, off the back of our manifesto, we are asking for a change to the current law to make this happen We are encouraged by the…
Read MoreYoung People and Families Mediation – Practitioners Forum
Would you like to meet with other mediators who work with young people and their parents or carers, to share experiences and learning? Would you like to know about a tool that you can use when working with young people and families in conflict? Come along to a practitioners’ forum on Thursday 20th August, from…
Read MoreSplitting Up? Living Apart? Wondering how to help your children? Parenting Apart is here.
We are delighted that the Scottish Government has recently given us funding so that we can offer information sessions across Scotland for parents who live apart – maybe because they are separated or divorced, or maybe because they have never lived together with their child’s other parent. Parenting Apart sessions cover what you need to know…
Read MoreWorking with a family mediator to agree child maintenance arrangements
Child Maintenance is changing – charges are being introduced in 2014 for the use of the statutory service (previously the CSA, Child Support Agency). There are routes to avoid the charges. The preferred option is to set up a private arrangement, agree who is going to pay for what and make the payments directly. If…
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